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His grip on the steering wheel was unusually tight and hot and he ground his jaw a bit. It was the tension that drove him to finally speak and air out that single question that had been haunting the deep places of his soul, “What do you think about sailing around the world?” It was spoken in dead earnest.
It’s not a normal question under the best circumstances, and it certainly wasn’t normal when he asked her. But his heart would not be stilled. It started when on their first camping trip she setup the tent all by herself and without him even asking. Something was very different about this woman. Something that spoke to him and whispered in his ear, “This is the one; She is as adventurous as you are.” But could it be? He’d long ago given up on ever finding a soul-mate that would follow him to the very ends of the planet. To the places that his heart told him he had to go.

Being a seasoned camper is a far cry from selling the farm and all the security of terrestrial life to go on some global adventure. But there it was. And the little hints just kept coming. How could he forget how enthusiastic she was about going to Burning Man? How could he not see that she’d been totally okay cruising the streets in that souped up corvette? What about the many hours they’d spent together working on his old house?
You see. Tate and Dani had met over some very bad martinis in a bad little bar and having made light of the situation, they became instant friends and soon it was readily apparent that some sort of love bond had formed. Tate’s adventurous lifestyle ran into Dani’s big dreams and that collision had brought them to this inevitable conclusion. The point at which Tate had asked the question that was lurking down in the pit of his stomach. It wasn’t so much the question but the answer upon which everything depended.
Then as Tate’s heart nearly pounded right out of his chest, Dani answered, “That sounds amazing!” And he knew, right there, at that moment, he was going to propose to her. He had been right about her. He’d finally found that soul mate he’d been searching for. And later, after they’d bought Sundowner and begun the preparations for sailing adventures, he did propose. And then they were married.

Both of us grew up in small town rural Louisiana. We both graduated from LSU. We both pursue wonderful careers. Tate is a IT person who leads a team of computer programmers while Dani manages huge construction budgets. We married in Jan 2012. We’ve been working on SV Sundowner since 2010 and hope to slip the dock lines and start on an attempt at circumnavigation in 2015.
Tate is… An Eagle Scout. A gearhead. A lover of old whiskeys, spicy tobaccos, and the wild places.

Dani is… A sportswoman and runner. A analytical mind. A lover of wines, a connoisseur of gumbo, and is in heaven tanning on a beach next to blue water.


We’re a team. A unit. An atomic particle on a collision course with this world and all of its adventures. We hope to reap the fruits of this most amazing planet and this wild and wonderful life. This blog is our chronicle. It is our story. It is Sundowner’s story. And if you chose to follow along with us, write with us, or maybe even one day visit with us, it can be part of your story too.


23 comments
May 11, 2011 at 9:44 pm
Heck yeah I wanna sail around the world on the sailboat!
August 29, 2012 at 6:51 pm
We love your story. My wife and i have a boat on Pier 8 (W2) @ Southshore and have admired your boat, on countless occasions as we leave the marina each weekend. You look like you survived the worst!
We will see how we faired this weekend! look forward to meeting the two of you.
August 29, 2012 at 9:17 pm
Thanks Steve and Sarah! We look forward to meeting you guys too. If I am able to get out there again tonight or in the morning I’ll take a look at your boat for you. I didn’t walk out on pier 8 but most of it over there looks okay so far.
The inside of the harbor seemed to have a lot less wave action so you’re probably alright. There is one boat over there that swung its boom way over and it was banging on a boat next to it but I don’t know if it was w2 or not, I could barely see through the rain.
Shoot us an email if you’d like to get together sometime.
November 3, 2011 at 10:07 am
Good for you both!! My wife (the love of my life) just bought a westsail32 (westcoast). The name of the boat has sadly forced us to change the name from Emotional Rescue to Blue Tale. Our currently live in Baker Lake, Nunavut, Canada (me: wildlife officer / she:analytical chemist). Our boat with be moored in Cowichen Bay, Vancouver Island, BC, Canada.
Happy adventures and safe travels to you both.
Rob & Sophia
November 3, 2011 at 10:13 am
Hi Rob and Sophia,
So glad you found our blog! No one will blame you for renaming “Emotional Rescue”..I’m sure the boat secretly wanted to be rescued from that name. Westsails are great boats! Fun adventures for you as well.
Dani and Tate
November 13, 2011 at 10:31 pm
Hey Guys,
Apparently they named it after a Rolling Stones song. Do you guys have a shower on yours?
November 13, 2011 at 10:52 pm
Hey Rob,
Our boat has a shower that was typical for boats of this vintage. If you pull out the head sink spigot, it will extend up to the ceiling and you can then shower under it. I guess you call it a pull-out shower head.
Tate
November 13, 2011 at 11:17 pm
Ours doesn’t have a shower, it may have been taken out at some point to make more storage?? I read about a couple of owners doing this to their westsails. You can check out our boat at:
http://www.sailblogs.com and do a search for the our boat ‘Blue Tale’. Many of the pics were taken by the previous owner (since we just took possession 2 wks ago). We also just started the blog, not sure if we’re going to keep this blog site format or try another???
Rob
November 14, 2011 at 6:51 am
I think wordpress is one of the best blog formats out there as of late. Its too bad about the shower being removed..I’ll have to check out the pics to see what you mean. Our shower is basically the hallway way beside the head. You walk in, shut both doors and remove the floor board to see a drain. Then the faucet from the head sink is used as a shower head with an attached hose.
January 3, 2012 at 10:35 am
Kudos to you both. It’s a worthy mission and so worth it. We did the same thing in as far as buying an older sailboat and fixing her up from ground zero. It’s a great way to learn your boat. We’ve been cruising full time for 7 yrs, 6 of which have been spent in the eastern Caribbean. Hope we see you out and about but if not, we’ll be following your blog tales. Good luck. Linda & Ed
January 3, 2012 at 11:58 am
Thanks Linda and welcome! We looked at your site and you two look like you are having a blast! Congrats on making it happen!
Dani and Tate
January 21, 2012 at 3:21 am
Congratulations on your life, adventures, and marriage. We sail out of Slidell, LA on our 35′ Atkin cutter “ROSA” . Hope to meet you two sometime. Do you frequent the North Shore?
Earl and Myrna
January 21, 2012 at 1:33 pm
Earl and Myrna,
We do make it up to the North Shore at least a few times a year and more often by car when we visit Dani’s mom in Mandeville. If you guys want to meet up for a Sundowner sometime let us know!
Tate and Dani
January 21, 2012 at 7:19 pm
You two are way too busy at this time with the wedding and the Cat Island cruise. We have been at this for quite a while. Married for 50, and sailing for the same. Keep in touch and when things slow a little we would enjoy meeting you two.
June 5, 2012 at 1:29 am
Love love LOVE the photo at the swimming pool!
October 9, 2012 at 4:55 pm
Hi Dani and Tate,
Wow! Good on you for aiming for a 2015 circumanvigation start. My husband Bill and I made the first leg of our circumnavigation last year (started June, 2011 from Victoria, B.C., Canada and arrived in Auckland, N.Z. end of October, 2011). Our next leg begins next April (2013) when we leave NZ and head for South Africa. Our first leg was 6 months long with 40 days the longest stretch without landfall… our next leg should be about 9 months and the longest sail without landfall will be about 21 days (more or less). We are planning to do this circumnavigation over the next 4-5 years since we will both be in our 60′s by the time we next head over the horizon (I am 62 and Bill is 59). We have a bit of a time issue since we want to be as physically fit as we can to do this voyage just the two of us!
I’m so glad I found your blog… I must show it to Bill tonight as I know he will really enjoy reading it.
You may be interested in have a peek at our blog to see photos and videos of our first leg. I only keep it up religiously while we are sailing but recently I have been posting some of our videos. hope you enjoy it.
Fair winds
Cathy
October 9, 2012 at 9:49 pm
Welcome Cathy!
Glad you find our story enjoyable. You are having a wonderful adventure yourself! So amazing to travel all the way to N.Z. and I’m sure you give hope to many of your peers who are looking to do the same thing. We’ll definitely check it out.
N.Z. is on our planned route and we are giving serious thought to laying over there and possibly working for a couple of years. We’ll be interested to see how you like it.
Tate and Dani
February 25, 2013 at 2:36 pm
Which Blog company do you use to host yours? What factors made you choose these folks compared to others?
February 25, 2013 at 2:47 pm
We are currently hosted on godaddy and picked them for the price. They’re just dirt cheap and I’m proficient enough with IT to self host the wordpress software (which is free). So I guess you could say we’re just tightwads and that was the biggest factor. We don’t like ads or “donate” links on websites so we need a low cost to keep our website free and without those sorts of things.
We picked wordpress software over blogger because it is so versatile and makes it easier for users to comment.
February 25, 2013 at 7:39 pm
With the current of WordPress– are there ways of securing your site from ‘unwanted traffic’ and or setting up a User Name/ Password that would force folks to login– at least one time? We were thinking about keeping our family and photos kinda ‘semi-private’… Thoughts on this since you are an ‘IT Guy’??
February 26, 2013 at 12:50 am
I believe what you can do is set it up so that some pages require a password to view the photos on that page. We’ve never used that particular feature so I don’t know too much about it, but the software itself is extremely customizable and has a lot of 3rd party add ons if the stock offering doesn’t work for you.
May 3, 2013 at 7:38 am
Hey guys! Just came across your site from a comment you made on “funding the dream” on Cruisersforum.com.
We’re in a similar process and plan to leave in June of 2015. We’re not planning on circumnavigating, just the East Coast, Caribbean, South American and then see what we want from there. Maybe we’ll see you out there.
Fair winds,
Jesse
May 3, 2013 at 12:05 pm
Hey Jesse,
I hope we do meet out there. Where are you leaving from? We had thought about leaving in the Summer time as well but we’re starting out in the hurricane alley and decided to try to get south before the season really began.